Gentlemen's Guide to shop Lingerie: How to choose the right fit & style for her.

Buying lingerie for your loved one can make them feel loved and appreciated, as well as strengthening the intimacy in your relationship. However, it may feel like you’re shopping in unfamiliar territory and can feel overwhelming. Choosing the correct lingerie will allow her to feel comfortable and confident and shows you know how to appreciate her.

“It's a powerful symbol of love and self-care, suggesting that the person is worth the extra indulgence.”

This guide will help you navigate the world of lingerie and help you pick something that will make your loved one look and feel like a goddess.

First things first….

Do you know her size? Nothing is worse than poorly fitted lingerie which is unflattering and uncomfortable. If you don’t know her size, have a sneaky peak in her underwear drawer to see what she size currently wears.  When shopping for bras, it’s super important to know both the cup size and band length to ensure a perfect fit. By doing this, you’ll pick lingerie that looks and feels good on your partner. We have visually illustrated methods of measuring her in our dedicated Size Guide.

Consider the quality and fit 

Quality over quantity, always! Go for high quality pieces which she can keep for longer. Look for luxurious materials like silk and lace which feel great against the skin. Wearing mesh pieces like our Isadora body, will hug the body and provide support creating a great fit. A quality lingerie piece does more than just fit, it allows her to feel confident and empowered. Consider her body type and how pieces will flatter her. Whether she has an hour glass shape or a rectangle, pear or triangle, Qrucifix has something to that will fit everyone.

• For an hourglass figure, our Angi range is the perfect choice.
• If she has a rectangular shape, the Harlow collection, with its bold lines, is designed to enhance her silhouette.
• For pear-shaped bodies, our waspies and harnesses draw attention to the upper body.
• While those with a triangle shape can opt for Carmen Classic, like our timeless mesh bras, garters and low-cut thongs to emphasise the hips.

We have a dedicated blog post on how to style each four body shapes below: 

What does she like?

What is your partner’s style? Her current clothing and lingerie style will give you an idea on the shape and the fit of the lingerie. Our pieces at Qrucifix come in a variety of styles meaning there’s something flattering for everyone. If she likes something more casual, go for a Carmen Triangle Bra and Thong, if she likes something more edgy pair the Petra Harness with the Carmen Chocker. If she embraces her figure, go for our Angi Waspie which creates a defined silhouette. 

Think about WHY

Is the lingerie for a birthday, anniversary or even valentines? Or just because you want to treat her? Thinking about the occasion will help guide you to choosing the correct pieces. The occasion will impact the choices down to fabric, colour, design and feel of the lingerie. A special event calls for something bolder and more luxurious, while an everyday treat will be more comfortable. It’s important to not only pick lingerie that fits her personal taste, but also fits the moment perfectly. For romantic celebrations, you can go for more flirty pieces our Angi Body and Lisa Harness. However, if you are looking for something to be worn every day, go for pieces that are both stylish and comfortable like our Angi Droplet Bra.  

Ask for help

At Qrucifix, we offer personalised lingerie styling to those that seek guidance. Whether you're looking for the perfect fit, a special piece for an intimate occasion, or want to change up your lingerie collection, we are here to help you feel confident, comfortable, and empowered in every piece you wear. To get more advice just email hello@qrucifix.com.

A final note…

Consider how you are gifting her lingerie. Wrapping it up in a box with ribbons will make the experience feel more luxurious and adds a personal touch to the gift. This makes the gift special to the both of you. You can view our Luxury and Conscious Wrapping options here.

We genuinely hope this guide helps you feel confident in providing a safe and positive online shopping experience, creating an unforgettable gift for that special someone in your life.